Sometimes, making the other party despair appropriately is also a strategic method.
If you meet a friend who you are not so close to and asks you to borrow 10Thousand You can only lend him 1Thousand.
butyou can't directly say that I can only give you 1Thousand.
Then your friend will have to curse you in his heart after taking the money.
If a person is too weak, he will borrow10thousand and only givethousand.
The operation mode that is more in line with local characteristics is that you have to tell your friends 1st That the situation is worse than his now.
He might have borrowed a lot of money outside and still can't pay it back.
That person hasn't lent the money foryears.
Give it back to him, just when your friend feels desperate, you can say it again butif he is really anxious, you can cash outthousand with your credit card and give it to him.
In this way, when your friend gets a thousand He will not say he is extra grateful to you butat least he will not say that you are not doing your best.
The same goes for President Pie.
He didn't want to offend Davis, but he couldn't directly refuse Davis and say don't think about the position of president.
That would make Davis think that if something happened to me You would have nothing to do with me andyou wouldn't protect me or help me. It's not interesting enough.
Therefore, he 1st greatly lowered Davis's psychological expectations.
At this time, do you still want to be the president?
To be honest with you, it is unknown whether you can stay in the association.
At this time, if Davis is given a little more room to turn He will definitely be grateful for the agreement.
At this moment, ChairmanPahan saw that the atmosphere was almost heightened andDavis was indeed beginning to fear being expelled from the association.
He sighed and said, "Davis, we are so close."
"I will definitely do this."
"I will try my best to protect you!"
"Although I can't protect the position of executive vice president."
"I will try my best to protect you as a vice president."
"If I can't protect you as vice president."
"I will at least protect you as a director!"
"Don't worry, in this calligraphy and painting association."
"You will be there if you are with me!"
The psychological construction that Davis did just now may be kicked out by the calligraphy and painting association.
butnow the promise is to keep at leastdirector's position andpossibly even an ordinary vice-president's position.
This moment made him feel relieved as if he had survived a catastrophe.
It felt like being seriously ill and going to the hospital.
The doctor said that his condition was very serious and there was a high chance that he would suffer from cold.
In the end, he hadlegs amputated and he survived.
Although it was really miserable to lose both legs, at least he was still alive.
sohe said with great gratitude "Oh, PresidentPahan, you are really my savior."
"PresidentPahan! I really owe it to you this time!"
PresidentPahan heard that he was so excited, and he also knew that he was giving a favor.
Davis was in debt, so he said "Well, Davis, you should play outside forSeveral days to avoid the attention."
"anddon't be in a hurry to come back."
"If you don't come back, you won't be the target of public criticism."
"andthe matter will be decided. I'll handle the rest here."
Hearing that PresidentPahan asked him to stay away from the attention Davis was on the verge of tears and thought to himself "PresidentPahan, this is Overl's Classy Mansion and there are no private rooms."
"soI can't take care of you the best way."
"I told you that I have already arrived in Hillsprings."
"andnow you want me to take shelter from the attention."
"Isn't it all a waste of time to take a round trip of more than 10ThousandKMs and stay in economy class forhours?"
"It's all for nothing, and the most damning thing is that I donatedhundred thousand for nothing!"
"What kind of evil did I do!"
However, he only dared to say this in his heart sohe never dared to say it.
He could only say with great gratitude "Alright PresidentPahan, then I won't be in a hurry to go back…"
"Can you tell me how you plan to operate this matter?"
PresidentPahan said "It's simple. You find a computer and write a resignation email."
"Saying that you are old, have limited energy, and plan to resign as executive vice president."
"butbecause you have deep feelings for the Painting and Calligraphy Association."
"You still hope to stay in the Association to contribute."
"As for the new position in the association."
"It will be subject to the arrangement of the association;"
"As for me, I will hand over the vice presidents for a small meetingtomorrow morning and explain things clearly to them."
"You, come down and do the rankings. The last vice-president, the others will be promoted in place."
"andMr.Bolin, the most prestigious and senior among the a couple vice presidents, will be appointed as the executive vice president."
"sothat everyone should be convinced;"
"If the opposition is not particularly strong."
"I can make a decision on this matter directly."
"andat least I can help you retain the position of vice president."
"If they really don't agree, then I will take a step back and change the following."
"Director Zan is the commissioned vice-president."
"You sit in Director Zan's position."
"His position is earmarked for you. What do you think?"

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